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DJ,s Against Bullying. Go to facebook page

Promotion November 2012

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0:00 More importantly, check this out as well, DJs Against Bullying

Alright guys, check out that. More importantly, check this out as well, DJs Against Bullying. It's a page on Facebook. I'll put a link in the description. Alright, let's have a chat, but come on, let's go for a walk. Well, first of all, Lee Mills told me about the fan page and I want to check it out. Bullying is quite close to my heart for many reasons. I'm going through a little bit of it at the moment. So, if you think for one second when you're in school and you're being bullied and when you leave school and you become an adult then bullying is something that goes away because only kids do it. You're very wrong because bullying will happen throughout your life but there are different types of bullying.

Types of bullying you may not even realize is bullying you may not even realize that you are being bullied right um you can see no hat on and you can see look at that look at all that hair gone disappeared well when i was younger i had hair like michael jackson my hair was like a friggin microphone big and bushy if i had hair like that today it would be classed as cool And street cred. And people would be going, love the fuzz man. Fuzz is an operative word there. When I was younger, people took the piss. I used to be called Fuzzballs, Jennifer, Bog, Fluff, Bumfluff. All kinds of hideous names. And when you're young, that does affect you. It hurts. You'll get bullied even more. It's great, isn't it? Now, the people who bully you, who are they? What are these people like? Maybe they just want to do it for fun. Maybe they're just bored and what do we do? Nothing on TV. I've read the newspaper. Let's go and bully someone. Or maybe they are insecure. Maybe they need to knock someone down so they can feel better.

2:29 Again, there are different ways of bullying

Because that's almost like, a bit like human nature. If we find someone's doing better than us, we feel down and low and depressed. But if we all of a sudden find that there's someone below us and someone's all of a sudden dead or ill or dying, then it makes us feel better because at least we think we're not like them. So possibly these bullies, maybe they suffer from low esteem, maybe they suffer from something like that. And therefore by bullying someone and knocking them down makes them feel better. So, again, there are different ways of bullying. There are different forms of bullying. And what I've just explained to you is a sort of stereo scenario typical way a bully would bully someone at school. You know, oh look at your hair or oh you wear glasses and I mean come on as an adult you look at that and you think what a complete tit. But then bullying as you get older.

4:31 On video, but I am being

You may find this really strange, but it's true. Let's say you live next door to someone and you buy a car. Could be second hand, could be brand new. And then that particular person all of a sudden buys a car again. But they buy something better. They have to buy. If you buy a BMW 2 Series, they buy a 3 Series. I don't know, I'm just speaking off the top of my head there. Not much hair left. That's actually a form of bullying because... They want to get one over on you. They're trying to be better than you. Now, what you have to remember, which is so vitally important, is that we're all the same on the inside. I'm being bullied at the moment, reasons I won't explain on video, but I am being seriously bullied big time.

That make me become stronger. I am stronger because of that bullying. Then, don't take it to heart. Almost try and acknowledge what that person is doing. Why? No, I'll start again. Don't take it to heart. Try and acknowledge the fact that they're bullying you when they shouldn't be. And try and come to terms with the fact that, I'm walking in mud here, that you do not need to be bullied. Thank you for watching. I picture these particular people in pink tutus and wands. Maybe one or two of them are really fat and ugly. And I just picture their faces in pink tutus, running around with a wand, and it just makes me laugh and smile. And I think, you complete tits. Or you picture them with big beards if they're the opposite sex. Just picture them in a very funny way.

7:39 Person bullying, friends, fact

And you'll start to realise that it's quite funny and just crazy. Again, bullying. It's not nice. If you are a bully, then... If you are a bully. If you are an actual bully. So imagine you are and you're watching this now and thinking, what on earth is this effing idiot on about? Then you can, if you're a bully, you can actually become a far... Bigger and greater person by not being a bully anymore and in fact going up to the people that you have been bullying and maybe coming to terms with the fact that you have been a bully, acknowledging the fact that you have been a bully and go up to the people that you have been bullying, apologize and maybe try and sort out your differences. It may take the particular person that you've been bullying, I hope you're following this, a great deal of time to come to terms with the fact that that particular person who's been bullying them has now said sorry and wants to be friends. But hopefully, slowly but surely, if you are genuine about not being a bully anymore then the person that you have been bullying, I hope you're following me, will eventually respect you for that.

Respect yourself for completely changing your outlook on the way you used to be and in turn you will become a better person. You won't all of a sudden grow bigger, taller or grow wings or whatever but you will grow internally because this is how life works. Sometimes life is good, we enjoy good times and we get on with it. Sometimes life, and I don't swear much, It's just fucking horrible. Shit gets chucked at you, left, right and centre, from people, from so-called friends that were your best friends in the world. They were. They may have been your best friends in the world and all of a sudden you find out that they weren't. They were in fact nasty pieces of work who just did horrible things behind your back and tried to destroy your life.

9:40 DJing because this is what

But try and make it as though they haven't destroyed your life. Try and make it as though what they've done is they've made you grow. They've made you become bigger, bolder and stronger. I won't go on for much longer. Let's talk about DJing because this is what this is really, DJing. Is there any bullying in DJing? There is. Let's go back to that car scenario. And again, talk about this in comments or make your own videos if you've ever had this happen to you. Let's imagine there's a group of DJs around in the area and all of a sudden you buy one or two new lights. Well, you will know the bullies because the bullies will be the ones who, one or two days later, will buy five or six lights. If you buy a light that's worth 100 quid, 100 dollars, 100 euros, the bully will be the one who will buy a light for 1,000.

Now they don't have to, they don't need to buy that light, but they're buying it because you've got one, so they have to get one. They have to get a better one. And that will probably make you very pissed off and feel, oh my God, what are we doing? Oh dear. But what you have to realise, the person who bought the cheaper light, is that, again, you're not better than them, but you have to feel sorry for them. You know what? I'm going to get a decent light, and I'm going to buy something for 100 quid. And you know damn well the bloke next door or the other DJ in the other town is going to buy something for £1,000. Well, why not do it? Because then they're just going to waste the money. So that's a form of bullying where DJing is concerned. So I will stop waffling on here. I hope I've made some sort of point. And again...

I'm still going to do videos. I am doing the videos, not as frequently as possible. And that is down to a certain amount of bullying I'm getting at the moment. But I'm getting on with it. I'm coping with it. I'm very strong. And what I am very sure about is that, as Buddha says, don't worry about it. Oh yeah. No, I'm not like that. But there are three things that will always come out. The sun, the moon and the third one is the truth. And I'm going to stick by that. Practice and enjoy. Thank you.

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